honda civic ecu wiring problems

I have a problem i have a honda civic eg6 sir it has a v-tec controller and my little boy mucked about with it wen i wasnt looking and all the settings are now wrong and is not running properly i think its now over fueling and not revving proberly and juttering when you go to drive it so I have just parked it up i was wondering if you know factory settings i could put in or if u would no where i could find the cars original port for the ecu to plug into would be so I could take it out all together?